BY SAIYAMI JUVEKAR
The dark clouds in the sky beacon the onset of monsoons in Mumbai. They remind us that summer has passed by as we stayed in our homes fighting the invisible COVID-19 virus. The rains also remind us that this time we haven’t done the usual “back to school” shopping for our children. The first rain may trigger our anxieties about our children’s learning as schools haven’t reopened with their usual first day cheer. These dark clouds heavy with water also seem to reflect our heavy hearts and our overwhelmed minds.
As parents, we feel heavier musing over how this summer was unfair to our children as it brought with it the news of the virus. The resulting lockdown was harsh on our young ones. Schools were cut short, parks shut and our children restricted in their required movement since then. We have had to keep them at home to be safe. Our resources were strained to keep them engaged and happy. We were successful yet also faced challenges when the children kept coming back to us constantly saying ‘I’m bored’.
At a loss of ideas, we may have succumbed to allowing them excessive screen time switching from the television to ipads to phones. We may have indulged in offering them extra sweet, extra cheesy comfort foods like fries and the all-time hit Maggi. We may have, at times, lost our tempers too, feeling overwhelmed with our own work pressures. As parents we may have been struggling with anxiety over our children’s futures and ridden with guilt at the perceived loss of control over the situation, leaving us frustrated by it all.
And just like the Sun peeks behind the dark clouds and forms a rainbow, as parents we need to allow the clouds looming in our hearts to pass and ride over the rainbow bridge embracing the little ones again.
How? With love and kindness. Yes. It is really that simple.
Here are simple ways to glide over the rainbow bridge and connect with our littles happily –
Parenting can be overwhelming especially in these times but it helps to know that we still have control over our lives and situations. We need not run from pillar to post looking for ways and ideas to keep our children engaged. Though formal learning and literacy is important, we can facilitate emotional, value based learning of life skills. This is not just the need of the hour but also an essential skill set for the future and can be accomplished even in the confines of our homes through simple daily activities and by maintaining a healthy rhythm.
Our children are our living reflections. Therefore we have the power to choose to look at the sky and notice the golden glow instead of the dark clouds, the rains will bring love and hope instead of darkness and gloom and come closer and grow as a resilient family.